After a few questionable complaints about her eyes and vision, we took Gemma into the eye doctor. Turns out she and Ashton share similar eyesight. Gemma has an astigmatism like Ashton and is far-sighted (can't see up close). Ashton was about the same age when we found out about her vision issues, but the optometrist recommended waiting until Ashton complained about it before glasses. Ashton got glasses halfway through 1st grade when reading piano music became more difficult. The optometrist said Gemma couldn't wait. Her vision is worse off and glasses would help her read. I am hopeful that the glasses help us with reading; it has been a rough go at learning to read. She loves taking care of the glasses and hasn't broken them...yet.
7.10.2023
7.09.2023
End of School
Ashton and Tanner finished out their school year and did great! No conduct marks for the year, which is a great sign! Tanner is a little concerned about Gemma next year. His concern is the Wilcox kids do well at the school with no conduct marks and he worries Gemma will ruin that. Time will tell.
The PTA hosted a party on the playground at the end of the year and we enjoyed hanging out with our friends.
Tanner loved his teacher this year and it was a perfect match for him. We got to see her at the party as well. He achieved his reading goal for 1st grade, which was to be at the end of 2nd grade level, in Spanish. He loves to read and nothing slows him down.
Ashton finished 3rd grade and loved her teachers as well. She made great progress in her Spanish and is a good little translator for me when I visit Spanish-speaking primary families.
Hard to believe they're off to 4th and 2nd grade in the fall! And Gemma will join them.
7.08.2023
Gemma's Preschool Graduation
Gemma finished out her preschool year. The school she attended goes all out for graduation. Caps and gowns and a little graduation ceremony. Then cake and a party afterwards. I think the high schoolers get very excited about graduation and that carried over into the preschool too. Gemma had a fun time celebrating the end of the school year.
5.13.2023
Weekend in Austin
Joseph had two weeks of training for work in Austin. In hindsight, May is a really busy month and being down a parent was rough. Lots of driving and shuttling kids around. But we made it.
The weekend between Joseph's two weeks in Austin, we either could have him drive home or I could drive the kids there. Since his work was helping pay for lodging and food for him for the weekend, we decided to go join him in Austin. Our first stop by seeing the bats fly out of the bridge Friday night. Except, they didn't come out! I think it was going to rain later that night and I read somewhere that the bats sense the rain coming and don't come out. Ugh. We waited for about 2 hours at the bridge, playing charades and eating ice cream. We saw a few bats here and there but nothing like the millions of bats that come out all at once. We'll try again another time. The kids weren't too happy with me.
Saturday was spent hiking around some fun areas. We went to McKinney Falls State Park and found lots of water to play in. We saw a coyote too, which was cool. My cousins live in Austin and they joined us for the state park.
After the state park, we had a picnic lunch and regrouped. I really wanted to do another hike in another part of the city so we cooled off in the van, some kids took a quick nap, and we hit the hiking trail again. We hiked up to Sculpture Falls, which was well worth it. It reminded me of a place in Wisconsin called Eau Claire Dells. We went growing up. Sculpture Falls had a nice quiet "upper falls" spot where the littles could wade in the water and not need to swim. Then the water trickled down into a pool where the big kids could swim and jump in from the rocks. We spent about 2-3 hours at the falls and then hiked back down. All in all, I think we hiked about 6-7 miles that day, which I consider a success.
Saturday night, we went to a restaurant for dinner. I think it was the first time we went to a restaurant without a play area that we actually sat down and ate dinner. We didn't have to chase kids around or take turns eating our food. Maybe that chapter of our life is over!
Sunday morning, we went to a local ward and then drove to San Antonio to see some friends. Then Joseph went back up to his hotel for work and I drove back with the kids to Houston.
Of course, the ending of his work trip to Austin wasn't so great. He left his training Friday afternoon and was rear-ended by a semi-truck within a few minutes of leaving town. So that has been "fun" to deal with. The car is totaled so now we have to buy a new car and deal with the insurance of the semi truck driver/company. Thankfully, Joseph's work is being really great about it all and helped get Joseph home from Austin. Joseph is sore and moving slowly but hopefully he gets better soon. The damage to the car is pretty significant. I am grateful there wasn't a child in the back seat. The rear window shattered, and there was glass all over the car seats.
5.11.2023
Easter
Normally we go camping every Easter weekend. However, rain and thunderstorms kept us home this year. Instead of camping, we got to participate in all our friend/ward Easter activities instead.
Some families from our elementary school got together Friday morning at a local park and we organized a picnic lunch and Easter egg hunt. All the kids play together well, so it was nice to catch up with parents.
One of Tanner's favorite young men in our ward recently started his mission. He did the "at home MTC" for two weeks, which means Tanner got to see him a few times as a missionary. He left for Germany this week and his family is moving to Utah this summer. This means we won't see him when he comes home. Tanner is pretty sad. The young man donated all of his kicking equipment (he was the starting kicker/punter for the local high school) to Tanner.
Gemma's preschool had an Easter egg activity Thursday morning. She had lots of fun trying to find the eggs with her names on them. Her teachers are much more patient with her than I am.
We also tried to do more Easter-focused activities at home. We skipped Easter baskets again. I haven't done one for a few years. The kids don't seem the mind. I made some cool sensory play dough kits for the long weekend and they enjoyed those. On Easter Sunday, I did a small activity with the kids to focus on the events that led up to the resurrection. My hope is the kids understand a little bit more about Easter.
4.09.2023
Imagination Celebration
Each year, our school district puts on an Imagination Celebration with all the art and music teachers hosting activities. The event also hosts the art contest in the district. Ashton had her artwork chosen for her school. It is a fun (and free) event where the kids can hop around tables and do tons of art crafts that I never do at home with them. Tanner had a soccer game that morning so I just took Gemma and Ashton. I tried to take notes on the activities that I could do at home over the summer with them.
Tanner and his favorite soccer team
A family from Lake Jackson moved to our area of Houston about a year after we moved. It was wonderful as their older girls were our babysitters so we got our babysitters back. One of the older daughters plays soccer at a local high school. Tanner has spent the last two years going to many of their games, getting to know the players' names, and cheering them on. He is sad next year is the friend's last year on the team. We'll have to find another team to follow.
One of his favorite parts is going on the field after the game. Sometimes, it is a bunch of kids who play and other times, it is the boys soccer team. Tanner knew some of the high schoolers at this game so he got to shoot around with them as well.
He got to go up in the announcer booth with our friend's dad one game.
The friend plays goalie on the team. I think this is one reason Tanner likes the idea of being goalie.

























