My 3 Year Old Girl!

Ashton is three! There is no possible way I can describe Ashton in a blog post. You just have to meet her and be around her. Ashton is a joy and privilege to raise! After three years of being with this girl, I can honestly say she is my best friend. I love having her around and being with her.

I love that she always knows when someone needs a hug or a smile. Randomly, she will come up to me and say, "I love you" or "Smile Mommy!" She's beginning to say sorry after consequences are given, which I appreciate. Deep down, Ashton is considerate of others. She recognizes when other kids are sad and tries to help them. Often, she picks up on when I'm feeling frustrated and will ask why I'm mad. Every time, this humbles me and helps me realize that my emotions impact her.

Her drive and ambition are strong. She is persistent and motivated to do well. If you need to get somewhere quickly, you simply have to "race" her and she will run full speed. Ashton desires to work hard and always wants to participate and help. I cannot bake or cook anything without her next to me, helping.

It's fun to see her vocabulary continue to expand. It seems like each day brings a new word or two (or ten). Her storytelling abilities are great and I love listening to her rendition of events. I am surprised at what she remembers. Lately, Ashton talks about events happening "months" or "years" ago or in the future. Such as, "I get to see Nana and Papa in three months." Thankfully, she has inherited the talent from her dad of making up songs as she goes. Joseph has always done this and Ashton follows in his footsteps. I always laugh at these because most of the time, she's able to rhyme with her made-up songs and they have a good tune. Ashton loves to sing songs from church or ones around the house. And the piano is a wonderful thing to her too.

Unfortunately, Ashton has begun the behavior of asking "why" to EVERYTHING! "Ashton, we need to get in the car to go to preschool." Ashton's response, "Why?" And it just keeps going and going! I did this as a kid too so I feel it's justice that Ashton does it as well. All the time!!! Why? Why? Why? I never realized why my mom said, "Because I said so" as often as she did. Now I do! Naturally, she is a curious girl so wants to know how everything works.

Socially, Ashton is an extremely social girl. She loves to be with her friends and talk to people. Anytime she sees a dog, she demands to pet it. Ashton will walk up to the owner and ask to pet it, no hesitations. At times, I worry about stranger danger but we'll get there. Very rarely is she shy. Maybe if she's embarrassed but that's about it.

Typical Day:
Wake up between 7 and 8am
Morning activities (either preschool, playgroup, grocery shopping, etc.)
Lunch around noon and show time
Nap from 1:30-4ish. Preschool wears her out so she takes extra long naps on those days.
Visit the park almost every day after nap.
Bedtime around 8:30 and falls asleep around 9 most nights. She could probably drop her nap most days and push the bedtime earlier but I prefer naptime since it overlaps Tanner's naptime.

Her first picture home.

1 year old Ashton

2 year old Ashton

So proud to be 3

Rise and Shout! The Cougars Are Out!

Football season is underway and we are excited to cheer them on. Pink Cougar shirt and all. Now if we could just win a game or two...

I like how they're looking at each other.

Finally finished the BYU fabric wreath. I wish I had painted all the letters in white. Otherwise, I love it.

8 Months Old

Weight: 23ish pounds

Height: 29ish inches

Clothing Size: Mostly 12 month clothing now. Some jammies are 18 month but that's because I hate the skin-tight pajamas that stores sell.


Daily Schedule: We've started waking Tanner up around 7:30 so we can fit his morning nap before morning errands or during preschool hours. Two naps a day around 9:30 and 2:30. Naps are finally getting better and longer, which is great! Bedtime around 7:30 or 8 as well. Pretty predictable schedule most days. He's still up once or twice a night but he's at least spacing it out so he might wake up at midnight and then sleep until 6am to eat quickly again.

Personality: I love Tanner's personality! He is a very chill, happy baby. The only time of day he is grumpy is during meals. He would prefer to eat very quickly and hates being spoon fed. It is too slow for him. We just can't shovel the food in fast enough for him. Otherwise, he is content and smiley. So far, he doesn't seem too picky about things. He crawls on grass, sand, concrete, etc. He loves the splashpad and swimming. He eats everything we've given him so far. He doesn't mind sitting in the stroller for walks or riding in the car. Very different than Ashton, who was (and still is) very opinionated as a baby. Tanner continues to sleep on the go, which is nice too. His favorite activity is almost always whatever Ashton is doing. He must check everything out that she touches or plays with. This annoys Ashton a lot but it's comical to us.


Firsts: Continues to cruise along furniture, climb onto shelves, first time sleeping through the night (which then caused me to get mastitis so I am content with him waking up at night instead of getting that again)

Sibling love: Ashton is slowly learning how to play with Tanner. She's starting to encourage him to do things and cheer him on. She loves to race around the house with him and crawl away from him. Tanner finds this hilarious and will laugh every time.

He now pushes Ashton around in this. He loves it.

So pleased with his dirt beard

Whining that Ashton is outside and he is inside.

His little bowtie!

How Ashton likes to wake him up from naps.

Ashton's Birthday and Party

I love planning parties and activities. So planning a birthday party is fun for me! Ashton is at the age where I figured she would get excited about a party. She's such a social person that I knew she would want to invite people and could take a very involved part in planning her party. She did! Ashton helped put invitations together, made the pinata, helped set up, make cupcakes, etc. I was impressed by her willingness to help with many aspects of the party.

We did a Splish Splash theme. Beach balls was a main component of decorations and planning.

Pull string beach ball pinata that my nephews and Ashton helped make.

The main decorations in the garage. The party was in the front yard and food in the garage. This meant I didn't need to clean the house for the party too.

Beach ball fruit tray

Mouthful of cupcake

For her birthday, she went to preschool in the morning. At night, we had her favorite dinner; pancakes at IHop. Then I had a few cupcakes leftover from the party. She blew out her candles. Until this point, we didn't tell Ashton there would be gifts for her birthday. We opted out of gifts for her party, which I'm grateful we did. She had no clue you receive gifts for your birthday. It was nice to not have her asking all day to open presents. We opened them after dinner and she loved the things she got from family. All day, she kept asking when her exact birthday was. She thought there was a precise moment to have her birthday. It was a fun day.

Showing off her dance moves with her new "Cinderella shoes"

Wearing one of her new dress-up hats

The cool science experiment set she received. Future engineer in our family!

Birthday Interview with Ashton

Here's Ashton's responses to our birthday interview with her this year. I wasn't too surprised by her responses.

How old are you? Three

What is your favorite color? Pink

What is your favorite animal? A cat

What is your favorite book? Daniel Plays At School

 What is your favorite show? Baby Einsteins (Her name for Little Einsteins. I like this show, especially since Ashton will now say words like "moderato" or "fortissimo.")

 What do you like to eat? Vegetables, Fruit (Honestly, this is what she said!)

What is your favorite game? Ho-Pi Cheerios (Her name for Hi-Ho Cherry-os)

What is your favorite thing to do? Read a book

Who is your best friend? Collin

What do you like to do with Daddy? Swing (which is where she swings in Daddy's arms)

What do you like to do with Mommy? Play outside

What is your favorite restaurant? Chick-Fil-A

Where do you want to go for vacation? To see Nana and Papa (my parents. She talks about this daily)

What do you want to be when you grow up? Play Ho-Pi Cheerios

What do you want to do tomorrow? Sing songs

What is your favorite song? Wheels on the Bus (We sing this before nap and bedtime every day...)

What is the best time of day? Playing pretend (This is new over the past couple months. She loves to make up stories and act them out. Her most common pretend story is flying on an airplane to see Nana and Papa.)

What makes you happy? Playing with my balloon (we have a few punching balls that I blew up recently. She loves bouncing them around)

I'm excited she's old enough to do birthday interviews now. It will be fun to see how her responses change over the years.

Labor Day Fun

Joseph's brother and his family came to visit for Labor Day. Ashton had a blast with cousins. Here's a quick rundown of what we did.

Visited the Crocodile Encounter place in Angleton.

Went to the beach. We bought body boards and tried those out. It was a great afternoon at the beach.

Aunt Anah and Uncle Terry spoiled her by buying ice cream from the ice cream truck at the beach.

Best attempt at a cousins picture...

Konked out from no nap that day.

Built mini-catapults.

Went to the duck pond/park.

Swimming at the rec center.

Another cousins picture before Church.

First Day of Preschool

We decided to start Ashton in preschool this fall. It's two days a week for three hours each day. I figured Tanner would be taking morning naps most of the school year, which would allow me to get work done at home with Ashton away. Plus, Ashton is a very social girl and we thought she would love more opportunities to meet friends and play.

Tuesday was her first day. On Thursday, she cried when I came to get her because she didn't want to leave preschool. She loves it! They do a science project each day, which she tells Joseph about. Then there's music and some other things. It's perfect for her right now.

Tanner has cooperated by taking long morning naps both times now. It feels great to get so much work done!