10.18.2017

September

There's a reason I try to write about each month before it's get too far into the next month. I'm having a hard time remembering all that happened in September.

We were finally allowed back into our home on September 8th. September was filled with a lot of service. Joseph went out every day he had off of work to help muck out houses. I wanted to go but with risk of mold and nasty water, it doesn't bode well for pregnant women. Ashton got to come along a few times with me to serve in other capacities.



A little treat for working so hard.
We took another trip to the zoo since Tanner had another doctor appointment in Houston. We got a second opinion for a birth defect and the doctor recommended surgery. I was much happier with the second doctor we went to and feel at peace with surgery (coming up next week!). The kids always love a trip to the zoo and this time, we had some gift money from a wonderful aunt so the kids got to buy something at the gift store. Tanner was asleep by that point so Ashton helped pick his gift out. We also used the money to buy popsicles on such a warm day.



The toy she chose from the gift shop. Within an hour of getting home, the stick/leash was put away because Tanner kept hitting Ashton.
Ashton's birthday came and went. We had a party for her with some friends from church and the neighborhood. It was a castle/prince/princess themed party and she had a blast. I made a deal with her that if she was okay with not asking for presents from her friends, I would take her to paint pottery in Houston. She went for it and I was very happy. We did this last year too and I enjoy that rather than getting a bunch of toys that our home doesn't really need. Ashton got her new pedal bike with no training wheels.





The kids got sick one week. Tanner got bronchitis and Ashton ended up with strep. Ugh... our paycheck went straight to the doctor and the pharmacy that week. Good thing my kids like the doctor. And Tanner became a pro at the nebulizer.

Taking a selfie with the PA.

All smiles the next day!
Ashton started soccer this fall. The first Saturday of games was a double header, which meant about three hours of soccer. She barely made it and was bribed with ice cream. I had to play on the field with her for the end of the second game. Thankfully, it's gotten better since then. But she sure looks cute in her pink shoes and socks.
This was the first weekend my sister came to visit as well. She is now living in Texas as a traveling speech therapist so we look forward to seeing her a lot over the next few months before she moves on to another job in the US.

Fall semester began at BYU-Idaho in September so I am teaching again. This semester has been frustrating as there are a lot of issues with the online course. Aside from that, I am enjoying teaching child development still.

I finally finished Tanner's room too. He moved into his crib and does great in that.


10.02.2017

Our Little Four Year Old

Ashton is now four years old! She was very excited about turning 4 and in the weeks prior to her special day, she would tell me all the things 4 year olds did and did not do. "Mom, 4 year olds don't climb up slides. Four year olds sit quietly at church", etc. We tried to take advantage as much as possible of her self-imposed rules about turning four.

She continues to be very social and willing to make friends wherever she goes. Since the flood/hurricane, our neighborhood is pretty empty and she's bummed her friends aren't outside more often. There aren't many social situations that she hesitates with.

Learning-wise, Ashton enjoys learning. We started working on sight words a few weeks ago and she loves spending time with me writing words and practicing reading. I have the goal to read the entire Book of Mormon just with her (and each subsequent child) before they turn eight. I look forward to seeing her reading skills pick up as we continue reading a few verses each day. She also likes to write letters to people and just needs me to spell the words for her. It's a bummer she misses the kindergarten cut off date by 12 days as I know she would love to go to school next year.

Ashton loves attending church and would love to go to every single meeting possible. Primary is her favorite and she was sad to not have it for a month due to our stake serving on Sundays during hurricane clean up. She's happy to be back in primary and hopefully she is learning something.

Stats from her 4 year old appointment
Weighs about 34 lbs. 50th percentile
Height: Just over 40 inches. 65th percentile
Her eyesight is good, which I was a little nervous about since Joseph has glasses/contacts.


Typical Day:
Wake up around 7:20 (that's when her clock lights up so she knows she can come out of her room)
Morning activities (either preschool, playgroup, grocery shopping, rec center, etc.)
Lunch around noon and show time
Nap from 1:30-4ish. She either naps or plays in her room quietly while Tanner naps. If I'm ahead on schoolwork and housework, I spend some time working on sight words with her.
Bedtime around 8/8:30. Dropping her nap most days helps her fall asleep really fast now.

Here's a quick review of Ashton over the past 4 years.
A week old or so
1 Year Old
Two Years Old (wearing the same shirt apparently)
Three Years Old
The newest four year old in our house

9.30.2017

Month of August

Between arriving home from Wisconsin and evacuating for Hurricane Harvey, we had a few weeks of August at home. Here are the highlights.

Terrible picture of the machine but here's baby #3 first photo. Don't ask me where the baby is; I have no clue. Maybe by the plus sign towards the top.
Went to a baptism one Sunday and Ashton was ecstatic to be with her best friend again (they attend the other ward in town)
Beach trip!

Built some floating shelves for our entry way. They are more decorated since this picture.
Took the kids to the zoo after Tanner's doctor appointment for surgery in Houston. Got to see the new baby elephant.
First haircut. I still miss the curls but it was overdue.

Celebrated President Monson's birthday for FHE.
First day of preschool.
First day of preschool for Tanner. This helps me be able to get all my work done for BYU-Idaho.
I went on a girl's trip to Waco for three days. It was a great trip and the kids had a blast staying with Joseph.

9.19.2017

Ashton's 4 Year Old Birthday Interview

Here's Ashton's responses to our birthday interview with her this year.

How old are you? Four

What is your favorite color? Pink (if pink sparkly were a color, that would be her favorite)

What is your favorite animal? Bunnies

What is your favorite book? Thank You Letters (a book we got from the Dolly Parton library mailing)

 What is your favorite show? Diego (although it's not available on Amazon Prime so she has only seen a few minutes of it once)

 What do you like to eat? Donuts (this was her birthday treat request so I guess donuts were on her mind. A few days later at her doctor appointment, she told the doctor that her favorite was strawberries. Much more accurate.)

What is your favorite game? The letter puzzle game (a game we have where to put the capital letters and lower case letters together)

What is your favorite thing to do? Play games

Who is your best friend? Breanne (normally she says Collin)

What do you like to do with Daddy? Go camping

What do you like to do with Mommy? Go camping too

What is your favorite restaurant? IHOP, where we went for her birthday dinner

Where do you want to go for vacation? See Nana and Papa and Molly

What do you want to be when you grow up? "Pet teacher" Her words for a dog trainer. She tries to train River to do cool tricks every day.

What do you want to do tomorrow? Go camping (I guess we should really go camping soon)

What is your favorite song? Baptism (I Like to Look for Rainbows)

What is the best time of day? Having my party

What makes you happy? Daddy telling me his funny jokes

9.13.2017

Hurricane Harvey

Throughout most of this ordeal, we've been kicking ourselves for not remembering more details about last year's evacuation/flood incident. So read this or not but most of this is for the next time we have to evacuate so we can live and learn.

Keep in mind our only experience with hurricanes before this was a tropical storm two years ago. The entire city shut down in preparation and I think we had one wind gust and a few drops of rain. It was pathetic to me. This experience was quite different!

Around August 22 (Tuesday), I received a message from a friend saying they may not make it to the adult session of Stake Conference that Saturday because of a tropical storm brewing in the gulf (the friend's husband is a city employee so would need to stay behind). That was the first time I became aware of a storm (now I check National Hurricane Center daily!). By Wednesday, it was a category 1 storm and we were told to hunker down. Thursday morning, I went to the store and gathered supplies to survive the weekend with no power/limited resources, etc. We planned to stick it out since the hurricane was forecasted to land about 180 miles from us. By that evening, it was now a category 3 (maybe 4) hurricane and landing 100 miles south of us. Joseph and I were on the fence about leaving. My main reason to leave was I didn't want to be without A/C for several days. Thankfully, our city issued a voluntary evacuation due to risk of flooding from possible storm surge around dinner time that night. Even if it is voluntary, I still feel safer to just pack up and leave. We both have low vehicles that can't get out if the roads flood suddenly and then we are trapped.

Thursday night (Aug. 24) was spent running around like chickens with no heads as we quickly found a dog-friendly hotel in Dallas, put some of our hurricane boards up, packed for four days, picked up the house and prepared for our home to flood. We wanted to leave early Friday morning to beat anyone else in Houston evacuating by choice. Note for future evacuation: bring nebulizer/inhaler! We had to visit the walk-in in Dallas as Ashton got a bad cough and needed her nebulizer. Next time, it's getting packed!

We arrived in Dallas Friday night and the hurricane was to make landfall that night. It was a category 4 hurricane at landfall. It ended up hitting south of where it was forecasted, which was good for our town. Our town seemed to fare very well. Little rain, minimal winds, and most people had power throughout it all. At that moment, we regretted evacuating. We could have stayed home and been just fine. By Saturday afternoon, we figured we could change our reservation and head home Sunday afternoon rather than Monday.

Saturday night and Sunday morning, it rained in Houston. And that's an understatement. Parts of Houston received 52 inches of rain over three days! That is only 10 inches shorter than me! Houston was flooded. All the major highways/county roads, etc were flooded. There was no way back to our town. While our town was fine and received minimal rain, we couldn't get there. We knew it would be a few days for the underpasses and highways to open again so we ended up extending our reservation to Friday so we would be in Dallas for one week.

We enjoyed our time in Dallas. Our hotel (which we'll go back to if/when this happens again) was 10 minutes from the Dallas temple. We took advantage of that, especially since the Houston temple flooded and will be closed for the remainder of the year. We ran into a family from our home stake in Dallas and got together on Sunday for lunch. We spent time checking out the aquarium, some parks, and the Dallas zoo. We were growing accustomed to hotel living as much as we could.

Book observatory tower view from the Grassy Knoll

Watching Beauty and the Beast for the first time.

Ice cream cones every night
Rode around on the temple golf cart when we visited.
Thursday (31st) came and we saw that we could finally make it home a day earlier than anticipated. The roads in Houston were clear. However, the roads in our subdivision were not. We stocked up on gas and groceries in Dallas as our grocery stores were very limited due to supply trucks not being able to travel. Because our subdivision was flooding, we went to a friend's home (who the mom and two boys were gone on a trip so we had the house mostly to ourselves). It was odd to be ten minutes from home but not be able to get there.

The night we arrived, Joseph was able to wade through the water to our home. He put a few more things on countertops and grabbed some more supplies for a longer vacation. Our house was okay at that point but definitely not accessible by vehicle. The city issued a mandatory evacuation the next day due to the sewer systems failing. Over the next five days, the water continued to rise. We came an inch away from our home flooding. Many neighbors and most of the people in our subdivision were not as fortunate. Many had anywhere from 1 inch to over a foot of water in their home.

Final picture of the water levels from a friend who kayaked by our house. One inch away from the weepholes in our brick.
Drone shot by Doug Whipple on Saturday, a few days before the water finally crested.
The entrance to our subdivision.
Now, you may be wondering how this happens if it didn't rain. You would need to look at a map of where we live to better understand. What happened this year is what happened last year when the neighborhood flooded. The only difference is that this year was MUCH worse. Essentially, rain water drains into the Brazos River in Houston. This river then flows towards the Gulf, near our town. When the river reaches max flood stage, it overflows its banks. The water has to go somewhere since it can't exit into the Gulf fast enough. When this happens, the extra water flows into the Bastrop Bayou. We live maybe a mile from this bayou. When the river overflows constantly and stays at max flood stage, the bayou also overflows and the water just goes out into neighborhoods, beginning with the neighborhood north of us. The water worked its way into ours. We aren't in a flood plain (yet... there is some talk that we should have been in one all along and it just wasn't approved yet) and prior to last year's flood, residents report no flooding since the neighborhood was built in 2004. We have huge drainage ditches everywhere to collect rain water when we get a heavy rain. But these ditches could not contain all the water.

Our neighborhood was flooded from about Wednesday the 30th to Friday, September 8th. The water finally receded enough for us to drive home Friday night. Our house and subdivision smells terrible and we had several critters find refuge in our home. Thankfully, our ward family sandbagged our home while we were away, which kept water from entering our garage. They are calling this the 500 year flood, I believe. I'm grateful we have always chosen to purchase flood insurance! That would have saved us had we flooded as far as finances go. Our neighborhood is a mess as most homes have carpet, flooring, sheetrock, and all their belongings strewed across the yards waiting for FEMA adjusters to come. It will be about 6 months or more before the homes are livable again. I am especially grateful we didn't flood as that would put me having a baby while still trying to get our home ready. Some people are living in RVs in their driveway while their homes dry out and get the necessary repairs.
What one street looks like in our subdivision.
Just piles of sheetrock, flooring, furniture, etc. sitting in the yards.

9.11.2017

4th of July

Before leaving for Wisconsin, we had a one last weekend at home celebrating the fourth of July. We enjoyed the morning at our annual tri-ward breakfast. Then we spent the afternoon and evening at a friend's home. The kids had a blast! The biggest moment of the day was Ashton riding a two-wheeler by herself! All that time spent on the balance bike is paying off. Good thing her birthday present this year is a two-wheeler bike. No training wheels for this little girl!